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Tami L. Farber

Tami L. Farber

Executive Coach For Social Change

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About me

I am Tami, and it’s so nice to meet you.

The world that I envision is one where each and every human being is honored, valued, and dignified in their wholeness, brilliance, and beauty. It’s a world where everyone has the ability to feel a deep sense of belonging and thrive. It’s a world that embraces, celebrates, and embodies healing, liberation, and — ultimately — freedom.

I’m about personal and collective healing, systems and culture change work, transformative and liberatory practices. My coaching practice centers racial healing and justice, being trauma-informed, and in showing care through mindfulness, somatic practices, and other transformative modalities.

As an executive coach for social change, I support primarily self-identified white women, which is my own lived experience. Together, we explore what needs to heal within us individually and collectively, to disrupt the patterns and behaviors that are in contradiction to our stated values and commitments, and to become more effective in our movement-building efforts, organizing, and leadership professional practices.

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I’m a white, cis, Jewish woman and grateful mother who has been dedicated to a lifelong journey of deepening my awareness and healing from the ways in which I have embodied oppressive cultural norms and injurious social conditioning.  From a young age I was a seeker.  I had my first experience in a therapeutic modality when I was around 5 years old and over the last almost 50 years I have continued on an intentional, windy, often challenging journey of exploring and healing from generational wounds, personal traumas, embodied harmful behavioral patterns, and engaging in deeper self-discovery, ancestral recovery, and transformational work specific to my leadership professional practices.  This personal journey grounds my work as an Executive Coach for Social Change and Healing Centered Practice Consultant.

For over 30 years, I’ve worked in the fields of Child and Youth Development and Education, Leadership and Organizational Development, Community Organizing, and Systems Change. I’ve worked for nonprofit and non-governmental organizations and within public and private sectors globally.

Notably, for over a decade I worked in international development for the United Nations Children Fund (UNICEF and other international organizations). I’ve lived and worked in numerous countries throughout East and Southern Africa, South Asia, Europe, and Central and South America.

I currently serve as a Lead Associate for the Racing to Equity Consulting Group,, and I have been recognized for my contributions in the fields of Social Work, Youth Development and Global Human Rights Work and have performed a number of keynotes and speaking engagements at Schools of Social Work across the nation and numerous conferences.

I earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Interdisciplinary Studies with a concentration in Child Development and Education from Long Island University-Global College.  I earned a Master’s Degree in Social Work from Columbia University. I am a certified coach and received my training and Coaching Certification through Seattle Life Coach Training.  In addition, I have studied Somatic Abolitionism with Resmaa Menakem, and the somatic lineages through Strozzi Institute and Generative Somatics.  I have received a certificate in Healing Centered Education through the Acosta Institute and a certificate in Healing Centered Engagement through Flourish Agenda. I have studied and trained with brilliant scholars across the world over decades in numerous modalities that continue to guide and inform my practices and I believe contribute to making my ancestors proud. 

I’m also a blessed mama through a sacred and beautiful open adoption, creating a new meaning of family.  I currently reside in Lafayette, Colorado. I am an avid lover of the outdoors, music, adventure, travel, play, and healing. I seek quiet solitude while also tending to my extroverted nature through spending time with family and friends and imaginative play with my little one! I value getting my hands in the dirt and growing food for my family and community. I love every form of water there is to swim in, relax in, bathe in, and meditate next to.

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My practice is grounded in the belief that we must do the ongoing inner work needed to transform ourselves. We need to do the work to heal from generational trauma and the impacts of white supremacy and systems of oppression living in our bodies. We need to do this work in order to be effective in transforming systems in a radical and sustainable way.

"Tami supports you to go deep and wide, to get into your body and connect with your truth. What she offers is so much more than traditional executive coaching; she guides you to connect with your own inner wisdom voice to remove barriers so you can move forward from a place of alignment. Tami is kind but firm -- she cheerleads but does not coddle -- she sees your innate goodness and divinity and is able to bring that into your session so you can see it, too. And Tami does her work through a holistic lens of intersectionality, helping you to understand how power and privilege are affecting your journey. Tami helped me to step more into my power!"

– Celia Framson, MPH, RD, CSP Clinical Dietitian IV and Nutrition Faculty, CHLA Leadership Education in Adolescent Health program

"I sought Tami's coaching services in the midst of personal and professional upheaval — though I don't think I consciously knew that I was in upheaval at the time! What a gift I gave myself to have Tami's compassionate, honest, direct, grounded support at my side when it all bubbled up and over. Tami asks good questions, listens to the answers behind the answers, holds space for all the feelings, and does it all from a deep rootedness in liberatory movement-building. … I highly recommend working with Tami and taking care of your present and future self."

— Rebecca Allen, Former Project Manager Social Justice Fund

"I was struggling to find my place in a national nonprofit where I felt disconnected to my immediate community and grassroots organizing. I was working through some conflict and harm with my colleagues. I felt stuck. … Tami helped me work through some of my blocks and fears around letting go and moving into a more uncertain phase of contract work and coached me through some of the practical steps that helped me to feel more secure as I made these changes. Twelve to eighteen months later, I have successfully transitioned into more rooted and purposeful work, and I am so grateful for Tami's support in helping me to see what was possible and how to move to a more joyful place in my work!"

— Jennifer Near, independent consultant

"Tami challenges me and walks beside me in my journey as a white leader. As someone with experience in delivering coaching, I am a critical consumer. And Tami astounds me each time we meet. She coaches my whole self, which I had not experienced before, and makes me feel entirely seen and understood. She acknowledges all that I arrive with and flexes to meet my needs. I feel held with compassion, empathy and a lot of accountability! I feel like she gets me and I am forced to bring my best self, or at least my most honest self, to our time together. And I know I am growing and shifting as a result of her coaching.”

— Phoebe Sade, Chief Executive Officer, Child Care Resources

"I turned to Tami in a moment of personal and professional rupture, and I am forever grateful for the strong grace and love within which she held me, and for the powerful tools she gave me. She is a gifted coach, a wise teacher, and a kind friend."

— Nora Karena, Adjunct Faculty, Tillamook Bay Community College

"Tami was instrumental in coaching me as a white leader working to unpack and shift my personal leadership style in support of anti-racism and liberation. She helped me work through difficult situations with staff and identify the areas of my work that I needed to keep and others to let go; ultimately leading me to a needed transition. Tami leads with compassion, humility, active listening, and integrates tools for self reflection and goal setting. It was an honor to work with her. "

— Alissa Haslam, Director of State Capacity Building, State Voices

"Tami has been providing me with one-on-one coaching for the past three years. Her support, inquiry, challenge and accountability has been profound. She has helped me unravel and relearn my own leadership with my board, staff and in the community. I can’t overstate the impacts it has made to me personally and I know that I would not have been able to make such leaps without this intense accountability."

— Karri Matau, Chief Executive Officer, Community Foundation of Snohomish County

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